Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Fire

I may have mentioned last fall that we had some devastating fires in our valley. There have been many fires this year around our country including one going on right now called the Colockum Tarps fire. As of yesterday morning it had grown to 42,663 according to the Wenatchee World. This morning it was stated on Q13 News that it was over 62,000 acres. This started probably 10 miles or so from our house. Thank goodness it went SW and is now past the Crescent Bar area and into  Kittitas County. My husband and I decided to take a ride to Crescent Bar this morning to check out this fire. The fire started just south of Rock Island Dam. There were no flames but there were several large areas which were still smoking. I talked with one lady who had boated down around the corner yesterday and she said it burned all the way to the river and now the flames are going back over the mountains. Luckily it is mostly brush. In the early morning of the beginning of the fire there were three homes destroyed. Hopefully that is all. We are expecting thunder and lightening the rest of the week and more wind! Pray for the safety of our firefighters, law enforcement and all those involved. Those of us who are old enough to remember James Taylor might recall that he wrote a song with the lyric, "Winter, spring, summer or fall, all you have to do is call, and I'll be there yes I will, you've got a friend . . ." Hopefully, you can be that friend who looks out after at least one other human being no matter what they are going through. Be there for them--everybody needs somebody!

Friday, July 12, 2013

Friends Provided by God

Throughout the journey of dealing with the death of my son, Matt, I have met many concerned Law Enforcement Officers. My name is getting out so these people contact me in the aftermath of suicides and the survivors who are hurting. I just recently met a law enforcement officer who got in touch with me concerning someone who had lost a loved one to suicide. She is fantastic and I am helping her help someone who isn't quite ready to call me. It is amazing how our God works and the new friends I have met through my tragedy. If we don't talk about suicide then the Stigma of Suicide will remain. With God's help and with the help of my new law enforcement friends I think we can help turn the tide and provide hope for those contemplating this act.

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Childhood Friends

Three days with two childhood friends turned out more fun than we ever expected. Teresa from Bellingham, mother of many adopted trans-racial children, Pat from Vancouver, my original editor for Matt's Last Call: Surviving Our Protectors , before Tate Publishing took over and an excellent quilter, and me from Wenatchee had planned this trip for a while. One of Teresa's adopted daughters, Angela, has found her birth parents. Along with her adopted family and Angela's husband, Bryan, they set out to meet her birth family. Bryan filmed the entire event and now a documentary, Closure is complete. That was the purpose of the trip, to see the film. More on that to follow. Our plans were made by Teresa and we were going to stay in a hotel. Teresa was telling her husband about our plans and when she got to the hotel part he said no! Not a good area. He proceeded to call a client of his who happened to have a houseboat on Lake Union. SCORE!!! We were thrilled especially when we all arrived within 30 minutes of each other Saturday around noon. It was a beautiful houseboat. Those of you who know Seattle know the weather isn't always the greatest. Well, it was hot, perfectly blue sky, no need for sweaters OR long pants in the evening. It was very close to the boathouse which was in the movie, Sleepless In Seattle . We hung out for a while and then walked across the Fremont bridge where we had lunch at the Red Door outside on the deck. We wandered around catching up on what we had all been doing. Sunday we did a little shopping and had lunch at Ray's Boat House. Angela joined us for lunch on the deck. We watched the yacht's going by, ski boats, crew, paddle boarders - a perfectly beautiful day in Seattle and Lake Union. Lots of pictures and enjoying one another. Back to Closure. It is a documentary of a trans-racial adoptee who finds her birthmother, and meets the rest of a family who did not know she existed. A story of identity, the complexities of trans-racial adoption, and most importantly, Closure. We attended the film Sunday evening. It is a very touching story. Many emotions and in the end there is a lot more to know and learn. Bryan did an excellent job on the film as did Angela and Teresa. No one could have scripted this documentary. You can see Closure at Pickford Film Center on July 13 @ 4 pm or Limelight July 14 @ 7pm in Bellingham. This documentary has been at the film festival in San Francisco, Colorado and they are headed to Las Vegas. A long list of places but I don't have those times or places. Pat , Teresa and I grew up in Wenatchee. Pat was 2 and I was 9 months and Teresa 7 months when we moved to the same block. We have been friends ever since. It was a great trip and thanks to David's ( Teresa's husband) friend the houseboat made the trip extra special. God is really working through Angela and Bryan and I see many good things coming  the documentary Closure. Congratulations to Angela and Bryan, Teresa and the rest of the people involved. Mr and Mrs Something is a couple who wrote and sang a couple songs in the film. Fabulous couple with great voices and talent.